February 22nd - February 28th Life Group Notes

Amazing Love- Until Death Do Us Part

I Corinthians 13: 1-8, 13

LEADERS - Take attendance in the TLC app. Read group guidlines.

Open in Prayer 
  • Welcome/Introductions/Cast Vision - Remind the Life Group of the Guidelines- See bottom of page.

  •  Doing the Mission: Did anyone share Jesus or last week's passage?  

  • Does anyone have a God story? An undeniable encounter or experience with God that creates an impact or breakthrough in your day-to-day life. These moments can be extraordinary or very humble, but always personally powerful. 

  • Opening Question: What was one of your favorite love songs when you were a teenager?
                                                                                                 
  • Share background for the passage: This passage is about how to love with a proper Godly love!
                                                                                       
  • Thought/Focus: When in your life have you felt the most loved? How did that love affect your life?
  • Have someone read or tell this week's passage/story: I CORINTHIANS 13:4-8,13
  • Discuss these questions: Go deeper as led. Remember Head, Heart, Hands.

  1. In verses 1-3, what activities are useless without love?
  2. In this passage, what does Paul say that love is? What is it not?
  3. How does love as described in this chapter compare to love as typically defined in our culture?
  4. Looking at the descriptions of perfect love in verses 4-7, in which one of these descriptions are you strongest? Which are you weakest?
  5. Look at verse 7. Would you say that you protect those whom you love in the way this verse addresses love?
 6. What does verse 8 say never fails?  Can you explain how it never should ever fail?
 7. Look at verse 13. What are the 3 greatest things in this passage? What seems to be the most important?
 8. How will you work on reflecting the love of God to those around you this week?
 9. If you are married, would you say that your marriage is a witness to others of what love should look like?



Next week's passage/story: TBD
Select someone to tell next week's story
Dismiss in Prayer  

Life Group Guidelines

This needs to be a place where people feel comfortable opening up and sharing with one another. Below are some group guidelines that will help create a safe environment.
CONFIDENTIALITY: What is said in the group stays in the group.
 
LISTEN: Let's value one another during the  discussions by really listening to what is  being shared. Try to avoid thinking about  how you are going to respond or what you  are going to say next.
 
PAUSE: Allow a pause in conversation after someone shares. Give the person sharing a  chance to finish and the group the  opportunity to consider what was just  shared before responding.

NO "CROSS TALK": Be considerate of others  as they are sharing- no side conversations.

NO FIXING: We are not here to fix each  other. Jesus does that part. Speak truth is love, give  
encouragement, empathize,  point to Jesus.  You may share  solutions God has led you through. The  other person should never feel shame or  failure, but rather connection & hope.

NO HIJACKING of shared stories.

NO RESCUING: When people are sharing  something deeply personal, there can be a  tendency to try to make them feel better  about themselves or the situation by  providing immediate condolences. This will  often cause them to stop sharing. Resist the  temptation to rescue people.
 
SHARING: Be sensitive about the amount of time  you share.
 
SILENCE: It is important to allow silence in the  group as it provides an opportunity for someone  else to share and for members in the group to  process the topic or question being considered.

BE SELF-AWARE: Be self-aware of how you are  personally affecting the environment through your  words, actions, and non-verbal communication.
 
"I"STATEMENTS: It's easy to talk about the issues  of others, but for our purposes, we want you to put  yourself on the table. Try to use "I" statements rather than "them', "they", "you", "the church", "us", "we", etc.
 
FIGHT FOR RELATIONSHIP: We will commit to resolve conflict  biblically. When conflict or sin issues arise between  group members, we want to make sure that  we are honoring God and each other in the way we  deal with these issues. We will fight for  relationship.  I will discuss the struggle with the person I am in conflict with first, & if not resolved, seek wise advice. The following are a few key Scriptures  in this regard (there are many others.)
  • If someone sins against you: Mat. 18:15-20
  • Restoring someone in sin: Gal. 6:1-5 
  • Forgive a sinner: Col. 3: 12-13 
  • Reconciling differences: Mat. 5:23-24, Mat. 7:1-5 

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